Interesting topic: I am currently feeling like im missing something in my life. Once you have had a special relationship with someone, going on without them can make you question, "do i rely on someone else for my happiness?" or to be complete. maybe duality is in human nature? Yes and No.

dear courtney,

I have to differ, hon...wiz does complete me. He is like the piece of me that has been missing all these years...he and I are one soul inhabiting two separate bodies...it's weird, i know...and i've never known anything like it before. But he truly does bring what was missing in my life to it.

wizswench

and about the pb &j? What Jacob said...YEEE-uck!

Love your blog...i will be coming back. :)

you got that right! i already feel fragmented enough...
working on integration all the time. the last thing i
want to do is WILLINGLY give up half the battle to try
to let someone else deal with it! fix me, fix me....
nice spot you got, courtney!

That depends on where the nuts reside, hopefully not in the head.

And it doesn't hurt if the peanut butter has really big NUTS! ;)

(A+ for the analogy).

Hey, thanks for the kind comments on my space! You're welcome back anytime and I feel honored to be numbered among your favorites. :-) I'll be back!

You're correct. I think you need to be complete before you find that special person. No one can come along and make it better or "complete you." Know what I mean. Have a great day and be blessed!

FWIW, I do not like PB & J. Peanut butter only, please. Never met a jelly, marmalade or preserves that I liked. Yeah, I know, always the contrarian. :)

I think it's the opposite and we complete them. We always know where their clean socks are! I just remembered how much I missed reading your space, glad I popped in.

hey - great site. i agree with what you saying about men completing us - its a crazy idea. Good analogy with food though! Just passing and saw your site - the title caught our attention. We're Irish and we went to america this summer - quite an experience, hence our blog. Whats your connection with Ireland?

Im so happy you put a pic of yourself in your profile for us to see! Yay! and youve changed your site so much since last I was here! I know I have a lot to catch up on, hope you are having a great week so far!

Well I think after the movie Jerry Mcguire that line became a little over used. I agree with you, a relationship is two unique individuals coming together as one while still remaing two. Now Peanut butter with chocolate is good, but have you ever tried it with an apple. Just cut the apple in half and spread a knifefull on...........hmmmm.

Have a good day, Courtney.

Very true. And Wise.

I agree--"completes" sounds like we need a man to be whole as a person. I prefer to think of my hubby as someone who "compliments" me in every way. Well, except for when I accidentally burn his dinners. You get the point.

Great site; I came to visit from Cybil's. Thanks for the tour!

I agree with you 100%. I'm going through my college student phase and J (my fiance) has already established himself, and is continuing to do so. I don't want to get married or do anything above this relationship step until I've established myself (not necessarily just financially, but mentally and physically). I also feel that it's necessary to be whole before joining with another person. Even though people say that two halves make a whole, nothing is permanent and a half can't do anything by herself (or himself). I really like your peanut butter and jelly analogy.

Enjoying your blog!! Stay sweet!

*:o) sugarie kisses xxx

Too many people miss the silver lining because they’re expecting gold.
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